We all have dreams. And we often have more or less the same dreams since childhood.
Living a fabulous life. Making a lot of money, marrying our prince(sse), traveling, having a family, making a real contribution in the world, loving the work we do, or whatever else it is we desire.
And here we are, 10, 20 or 50 years later, still with the same dreams that have not manifested, or have manifested only partly, and maybe not in a way that truly lights us up.
So how do you make dreams come true?
First of all, you need to have clarity on what it is that you truly desire. Not some vague notion, but a clear vision of what it is you want. For many of us that first step is already very difficult. We were not encouraged to dream, we were not encouraged to take ourselves and our wants and needs seriously.
But if you want to change your life, it is time to do that now. Really check in. Listen closely to what sings to your soul. Allow it to be there, without judgment, and without immediately declaring it impossible.
Find a desire that really really thrills you. That makes you feel alive.
And then hold the image, and feel and see and experience yourself having your desire. The more emotions you can put into it, the better. Bring yourself on the same frequency of whatever it is that you want. Experience having it already. And do that daily.
Everybody who has watched ‘The Secret’ knows that.
So why are so many of us still without what we desire most?
In my opinion, it is because we do not do the third step.
And this is to follow through.
This is to get off your beautiful bum and act. This is putting your money (and your mind and your action) where your dream is.
It is making the call despite breaking out in cold sweat because you are so scared to do it.
It is taking some action, every single day, that moves you closer to where you say you want to be.
It is taking a stand for your dreams, and taking on the responsibility to actually make them happen.
First through clarity
Then through feeling it, aligning with it
And then through action
I know this will probably not make me very popular. But I also know that here, on our tangible, 3D planet, this is how it works.
You have to make it work, through making it work.
If you want your business to thrive, you have to create your programs, you have to send out your newsletters, you have to write your blog posts. Over and over and over again.
And if you want to meet your soul mate, you have to work on yourself and your issues, you have to be clear on your non-negotiables, and you have to put yourself out there where other people hang out.
Ask for internal guidance on what it is that you can best do today, and then do it.
Despite being afraid, despite rather wanting to be saved, despite not being ‘in the mood’.
Your dreams are in your hands.
Do you love and respect yourself enough to make them happen?
You can do it, one baby step at a time!
Lots of love